Something that I wish that those who see this understand where I am coming from. Taking a opinion or a stance of any facts, opinions and such... When you feel that you must scream your movement to the heavens that your right and be damned for others around you.
That get Offended so easily over matters that should be old news or demand revenge or compensation for the actions of other generations before or not even effected them directly. Who dispute like spoiled children that should be directed not at the people but the officials that govern.
I despise people like this, like times where people where called RACIST for not rallying together in a library stopping people from doing their own thing and HARASSING them for not taking action in a movement they are far past passionate about.
As a species we have allowed a trait to grow that causing problems. Where respectable people who would do things for everyone and fixing the right where is wrong is criticized for not doing some special condition to appease a small group that screams too loud at those in a bully mindset.
No one that outside this likes it when you yell at them. I forsee a strong majority calling a end to disruption to operation in honest and fair operations over trivial things.
I went to a steakhouse with my father... he REALLY wanted his prime rib and getting annoyed being stuck at the house other than going to his doctor appointments.... I had a turkey diner special while my father went with prime rib again because that is his favorite. Can't blame him for liking for what he likes. It was pretty uneventful other than good food and getting full before getting my main course (my stomach gotten smaller from my current diet).
However I haven't gone anywhere for BLACK FRIDAY... or how I like to call it... FRIDAY OF MADNESS... I avoid going to stores because there will be fighting over stores (I know this is very common in East coast and mid USA and South west... but not so much in Arizona (that I known of so far). United States is filled with people wanting things to extreme levels... regardless of the reasoning I prefer to not be in such of a environment and having a introvert personalty in large groups or stores as such issues can occur. I know in other countries that do black Friday take measures to keep the environment calm and straight forward keeping the crowds in line (but yet being kind to offer snacks and water for those that want it. If you want to be rude you don't get to go inside. Granted people's tensions are always high in the united states... the middle class and poor are almost indistinguishable from each other in the matter of income and supply of funds.... Such entertainment has seemed as a only way to have status in middle class... the better house... the better equipment... Its pretty sad thinking about it.
There is a good time to get any experiences others had... maybe other states/cities take measures to make such horrible environment to be reduced? go ahead and share your thanksgiving and black Friday experiences in the comment box below!
well our landlord placed a note on the fridge of the house that if we (all the tenants) can't pick after ourselves then she will be adding to the rent.
granted I haven't been prefect in that but when I am asked I man up to it. and clean up because it was late and I get in a grumpy mood making stupid pancakes... well in the last few years pancakes have been the main thing we eat if we get low on funds to pay for food. I am forced (well I can chose not too but that just opens up a can of rage directed at me I don't need so out of mental health I go ahead with it.) Normally the pans are not cleaned all the way or they are scraped with metal that their non-stick surface is damaged this makes pancakes very HORRIBLE to make and VERY hard to clean up (I spend an extra hour on one PAN to make it clean again and that isn't perfect and thats the problem).
granted I am more than happy to take out the trash when I am free but since I avoid placing trash in the bin I don't know its filled til someone else takes it out. I also have to handle many things with my father which I am not going to get into that. From being asked to stay up to keep my father awake and then complains I am sleeping too long (because he keeps AWAKING ME UP!)... Alas this isn't my worries right now.
Not long ago the landlords step son moved out and it would seem that be better but she been dealing with her husbands growing medical issues and that has to be a strain. In the last week he went to the emergency room about 5 times which is highly concerning so seeing junk in the kitchen and clean it up doesn't add to the mood. I avoid leaving junk but in the middle in the night you will miss things and my mindset cleaning isn't a "good" thing as I always link it to emotional negatives that happened in my life. Always... ALWAYS had to clean.. everything had to be prefect because guests where coming over. Its the mentality that doing dishes or such that makes me irritated because it was always rushed or over done and wasteful in efficacy.
In my past it wasn't every hour (except when guests coming over) It was also every other day. lacking the stuff to make a reasonable mess... It was meant to pass time to keep us busy when we where young. Thinking about it only brings up more questions than answers for me. I will get over it but writing this makes me thinking more about myself.
Porn is used VERY OFTEN in our age today and its a common thing. However though it shouldn't be a shame to omit such details in a cool matter its really no one's business what you do or don't do in reguards to porn. Things that people get shamed for is also something that always been a issue in society. How more Pure of a soul you are... when you don't look at porn and masturate to such material, which made this shadow of shame that looms over people because they get arosed over imagry of someone/thing/action a taboo among many religious people that I see in a daily basis.
I am not here to say you SHOULD be looking at porn and enjoy everything about it, no its quite the oppisite because something that makes you feel good that doesn't harm others/enviroment/health really shouldn't matter. I personally think its a sign of a true character of a person that they are honest that they look at porn... not the stuff they enjoy in detail but generalized. These people in my book are cool... they not afraid but they have no reason to suck you into their fieish. It seems to be more like a right of passage teenage years to be aware of termnology and the meaning behind it when its related to things in the sex sphere.
But, there are things that do disgust me that i hear people do and it gets my stomach to go into a spin-cycle because their enjoyment is very.... extreme in the options out there.. which do seem unhealthly or harmful physically. If a friend mentions that they where into that stuff I might mention "WTF" but I would get over it as long I didn't see it. I am not going to remind them how HORRIBLE they are.
Sexualty and Enjoyment in ones tastes should be able to be relaxed. It just bottles up and no one likes a sexually irrated person. If you don't need porn... good... want porn... cool... want to take over the world to be a utopia of balance and undertanding... send me an e-mail.